Sunday, September 10, 2017

Tip # 7: LIFT YOUR SPIRIT...SING, DANCE, LAUGH, PLAY





If you are a newcomer to this blog it will be very helpful to read my Introduction to these tips, and then my post "How to Use These tips."

With this tip we begin to actively embrace the higher frequencies. or energies, and avoid the lower ones. The more we each practice this, the easier it will be to literally feel good, all day, every day.

But why would we want to do this, and why, as a Transformational Personal Growth & Life
Coach, do I call this a tip, or step, to Soar?"

First, doing this feels great. Many people might believe that feeling great is the result of Rising Above and Soaring, not the access to it. It is a goal or endpoint, they may say, and the endpoint will come when we get to the place where we actually do Rise Above and Soar.

This is somewhat true. Yet this is also a conversation about "Which came first, the chicken or the egg?" Does having the good things (the nice house, the expensive car, the beautiful jewelry, etc.) bring you the good feelings of happiness, peace, joy, and the like? Or does feeling the good feelings of happiness, joy, fun, and peace bring you the good things in life, up to and including monetary abundance and beautiful 'stuff'?

As human beings we tend to think that when we become successful and get all of this good 'stuff', we will also feel great and love our lives. Yet the Law of Attraction and Quantum Physics seems to indicate something very different... When we feel 100% great, as if we already have all of that stuff, we will then begin to have more of it.
There are many people who can be miserable and still have lots of stuff.  They can attract it because they really believe it to be possible. And there are lots and lots of people (and perhaps the majority) who can be miserable and have very little stuff.

Yet when a person finds true joy within him or her self, having 'stuff' is the icing on the cake. Nice stuff will come by the Law of Attraction (as long as one gets rid of all beliefs and  mindsets to the contrary.) And it is very, very nice to have that nice stuff. But we already have the gold when we have our true joy. So our happiness is not at all dependent on having the 'stuff'.

So in this step we go right for the gold...The actual, current. palpable feeling of fun, joy, ease, play, love, laughter, peace, fulfillment and the like. And there are concrete ways to pull those feelings to you.

Here is the process I have used for many years now.

To begin, observe yourself and notice when you feel good (happy, joyful, playful, light-hearted, blissful, peaceful, loving, cuddly, prosperous, etc.) And notice when you feel bad (Sad, depressed, angry, annoyed, jealous, vengeful, judgmental, critical, lacking etc.) As you notice this you will quite naturally want to move yourself out of the unhappy energies, and into the happy ones.

Think of this tip as “Shift the energy on a dime.” When you feel bad. Do something that feels good to you and literally pulls you to a feel-good place.

Here are some ideas…
                   
1. Play. Pretend you are a kid again. Find ways to play as you did when you were 6 or 10 or 12. I can't overemphasize the role of play in helping you to Rise Above & Soar, and get to a place of feeling good all the time. A good exercise for anyone is to make it a task to play in  some way, every single day. When you have a day off, spend a whole day playing at the beach, a festival, with the kids and a football, or whatever.
2.Put on an upbeat happy song and sing or dance to it. It is virtually impossible to be unhappy listening to an upbeat happy song. Here are a couple to start with.


                    DON’T WORRY, BE HAPPY. (Bobby McFerrin)
HAPPY. (Pharell Williams)
ALMOST ANY 1950s/1960s Rock-n-Roll song
will make you happy. Here’s a silly one for one…
3. Color or draw something pretty and light-hearted. Sacred Geometry is great for coloring. It is pattern-based and you can use pretty colors. And you need very little artistic skill to make it look great. You can pick several you like, print them and keep a stack on hand to color when needed.
SACRED GEOMETRY IMAGES
4. Watch a light-hearted funny movie, or a musical. I personally think an upbeat musical is the best way to quickly raise your vibration. Here are my top picks for musicals and comedies. A lot of them are oldies, as movies were happier back then…
MUSICALS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD
Mary Poppins
Chitty Chitty Bang Bang
 Jungle Book
  Grease
The Sound of Music
   Annie
   My Fair Lady
   The King & I
COMEDIES THAT KEEP YOU LAUGHING
(Many are oldies, but goodies...)
It’s A Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World
Rat Race
Trains, Planes, and Automobiles
Vacation (Chevy Chase)
Christmas Vacation
European Vacation
Arsenic & Old Lace
 Bringing Up Baby
Mrs. Doubtfire
In working with this tool you will also wish to avoid people, places and things that have a negative energy. Move yourself away from horror movies, crime dramas, soap operas and the “Real Housewives of America.” (Who are not very real, by the way.) My first degree was in theater, and I am also an actress. So I looove to feel things, and heaven knows I love drama and a good tear-jerker. Feeling emotion is a natural and important part of being human, and not a bad thing, in moderation.

However time has taught me that I can easily cross the line from moderation to obsession. The negative vibration, or frequency, of what we watch on TV, the computer, and in our movies can be quite debilitating to our ability to be and stay in a happy, feel-good place. The negative energy IS increasing the violence and suffering that occurs on this planet. So why do we still indulge in it?

Over time and study of the Law of Attraction and Quantum Physics, I have come to believe it is downright irresponsible for me, and all of us, to constantly feed our brains and creational spirits with chaos, violence, suffering and harm. I include in this the millions and millions of us obsessively watching Hurricanes, Tornadoes, Earthquakes and Tsunamis for hours on end. This is a frightening use of the very powerful collective consciousness. It creates more and more of the natural disasters that literally kill us.

So it is best that we tune into these events quickly, just long enough to get the link to donate.Then we can go watch a happy-go-lucky musical. The importance of us all withdrawing our fear-based focus from these natural disasters cannot be overemphasized.

With this in mind, I personally also avoid the mainstream news, with the focus on who is killing, shooting, maiming, mutilating, robbing or stealing from whom. Remember in this step that WE are the guardians of the purity of our own minds. What we put in them will definitely sew some seeds and grow.

Some activities can bring either a highly positive or a highly negative energy to our lives, depending on how we engage in them. Sexual activity is a good example of this. If for instance, we choose to watch sexual movies, then watching an interaction that is loving, profound and beautiful will raise our vibrations. However if we watch a sex movie that is violent, degrading, hurtful, or painful to anyone, this will significantly lower our vibrations. Such content will affect the course of our lives in a way that we probably don’t want it to.Most sexual movies in our somewhat violent society are not loving and profound, so it may be best to avoid them.

If watching something is bad, then doing it is twice as bad. So to move forward on the evolutionary scale we must each stop knowingly engaging in the darker side of our own human psyche.

Here is another wonderful tool for you. Watch this inspirational video about The Earth’s Ascension to quickly raise your vibration.


Speaking now from the perspective of Eastern Medicine and body physics, all of these 12 steps will affect multiple chakras. However each will work primarily in one or two chakras.

This 6th step is mostly working in the realm of the throat chakra, which houses the ability to safely speak, feel, and be trusted. We must be pure and clear in order to be trusted to speak what is pure and clear. So this step is about purifying and and clearing our energy, and living only in the good vibrations, to the best extent possible.

I will now delve into metaphysics a bit. If metaphysics is not your thing, no worries, Take what you like and leave the rest...This chakra is looked after by Archangel Michael. I understand also that he is happy to assist you in this journey, if you are interested in such assistance. They say that Angels and Archangels can only assist us if we ask them to, so be sure to ask for help. Be sure likewise to thank each individual whom you ask to assist you.

When you ask for help, it is best to leave the options open as to how the help will come. In other words don’t ask for a specific item or outcome, such as a new house or a new car. But rather ask for guidance.

For instance, you could say…
“Archangel Michael I ask you to please guide me in the best way(s) to keep my mind and thoughts pure and on a high frequency, and keep me living in a joyful, peaceful, loving place. I am open to all of your ideas and I thank you for your kind assistance.”

 As always, all of this is contributed to you from a place of humility. Yes I am a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach. However, when all is said and done, the biggest trainer we each have is that Higher & Divinely Connected Self within us.

Have fun living in the happy place, more and more and more!

Namaste.
Lorelei Fenton

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Thursday, August 10, 2017

Tip # 6: FALL VICTIM TO PEER PRESSURE: MAKE HEALTHY FRIENDS




If you are a newcomer to this blog it will be very helpful to read my Introduction to these tips, and then my post "How to Use These tips."

Our mothers used to say "Hang out with the right crowd. Don't be hanging around with a bad crowd." I hate to admit it, but she was right then, at the age of 16. And she's still right now, at the age of... Well, we won't go there.

 Now hanging out with only the happy people can seem to be kind of cold-hearted, or even downright Un-Christian (or whatever your particular religion is.) 

 So why,  as a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach, would I say that?

 The fact of the matter is that if we put a "doom-and-gloomer" in a crowd of people who are laughing and having fun, he or she will bring the whole group down. Very seldom does a positive, happy person raise the level of happiness for someone who does not want it raised.

 For instance, I have a loved one who is chronically depressed. For many, many years I tried to make her happy. I finally learned that she gets no better at all when I try to lift her spirits. But I can easily get worse as she dampens mine. So I have learned to step back and limit my time with her.

 I have heard top experts say that you can tell your approximate income by averaging out the income of your closest friends. I take that one step further and say "We can tell how happy, or fulfilled, or successful, or spiritually connected we are by assessing the people we hang around with." For the most part, our happiness level will be similar to that of our friends, family members, and lovers.

This is very good news in a way. Because it becomes very obvious that our access to what we want in life, be it material, or non-material things, is to hang out with people who have it already. In other words we have to search the world for friendships with people who personify whatever it is we want.

At this point I will also make a bold claim that what we ALL want, what everyone truly desires at the most basic level of life, is to love and feel good about themselves. And as a close 2nd, we want to share that love and feeling good with others. So if we want that, we need to scour the world and find and become friends with the people who truly love themselves, and feel good about it.

 If we have that kind of self-love already, I will assert that we already have those kinds of self-loving friends. Because like attracts like. And conversely if most of our friends are unhappy, or 'doom and gloom', or 'the glass is half empty', I will assert that they are lacking self-love, and so are we. Otherwise would not attract them as friends

 So this is the not so good news...If we are each to have the life we dream of- including self-love, fun, play, ease, joy, fulfillment, and happiness, we are going to have to let go of all of our friends who live in the opposite way.

 What would happen if we each surrounded ourselves with joyful, happy, fun, playful, and heart-centered beings? How would those kinds of "rising & soaring" friends help us to "Rise Above & Soar"? Meanwhile when our unhappy friends get lonely enough, they may choose to go out and learn how to be happy.

 In the days of loving an alcoholic I learned this... It is only by choice that any of us change- choice or when life convinces us that we have no other choice. Meanwhile peer pressure is huge, even for adults. The trick is to have your peers pressure you toward what you really want, and not away from it.

 The wonderful thing today is that such enlightened happy friends are 'there for the taking.' At online sites like meetup.com we can literally search for whatever we want in a friend. And we search by association whatever we want in ourselves! How cool is that?

 Once we have such friends, we will want to get into community with them. This is truly step # 6... not just having supportive happy friends, but getting together with them, going to the dances, and drumming circles, and meditations, and ball games, and picnics, and spiritual events. This will have our spirits truly soaring, as we leave behind the cell phone, the computer, the TV and the Game Console to really connect with others.

 I have walked the walk my friends. I have been in the deep, deep trenches in life where it seemed like there was nothing lower than where I was, and the only direction I could possibly move was up. The thing that raised me in those days was that I actively put myself around people who felt better than me. I welcomed the light and joy that happy, peaceful, heart-centered people brought to me.

 So go make some new joyful new friends and really connect to them. That is Step 6, and how we use "Peer Pressure" to alter life for the better.

 As always, all of this is contributed to you from a place of humility. Yes I am a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach. However, when all is said and done, the biggest trainer we each have is that Higher & Divinely Connected Self within us.

 Namaste,
Lorelei Fenton


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Friday, June 30, 2017

Tip # 5a: MY MAMA ALWAYS SAID "YOU GOTTA PUT THE PAST IN THE PAST"




If you are a newcomer to this blog it will be very helpful to read my Introduction to these tips, and then my post "How to Use These tips."

"Put the Past in The Past."  If you're like most of us, you've heard this saying more than once. And your mother was the first one who said it. You were probably saying something like "I don't want to ride my bike because last time I tried, I fell down." And she said "You got to put the past in the past." So you got up and tried again.

And we all had mothers, so most of us became pretty proficient at putting the past in the past. When we lost that job, we went out and found another. When that relationship didn't work, we went out and found another. When the next job and the next relationship didn't work, we went out and found others. And when the next job and the next relationship didn't work, we went out and found others.

 Some of us got back on so many horses, we were hobbling around like a cowboy.

 So as a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach, this is what I have to say...

 What if the reason all of those jobs and all of those relationships didn't work was still the past. What if we had never, ever gotten over it? What if we just pushed it further and further to the back of our brains... right into that subconscious that everyone says is even more powerful than the conscious?

 How do you overcome your past? Or to put it more succinctly, how do you overcome that past, which you can't even see, but which is creating the same situations over and over and over again.
I am not just talking about jobs and relationships. I am talking about anywhere in our life where we say "Oh no... Not this again." Not this employee. Not this bank overdraft. Not this argument. Not this health issue. Not this kind of a pet. Not this lost keys. Not this vacation mess-up. Not this car issue. etc. etc. etc.

 Wherever we say "Not this again", we are actually dealing with a pattern. And wherever we have a pattern, that's our past showing up where we definitely don't want it.

 There are lots of reasons why that happens: The Law of Attraction, and the Law of Karma, Ontology, The Reticular Activation System in our brains, Quantum Physics and Quarks. And if you have plenty of time I can teach you what I have learned about all of that over the last 20 years or so.

 Or you could just take my word for it.

 Whenever we have a pattern in anything, that is our past that we have not yet put into the past. And it's not so easy to solve it by just getting back on the bike.

 How do you overcome your past so those patterns go away?

 I did a keyword search to see what all of you were searching for around my topic before I wrote this post. And it seems you are searching for "How do you overcome your past?" So that's why I am using that phrase.

 But in actuality we're not really wanting to overcome our past. Because having to overcome something implies that we see it as an obstacle. And if we see our past as an obstacle, that in itself is a very big obstacle.  (See my post "Believing Is Seeing")

 So what we are looking to do instead is a sort of "divine alchemy." We are cultivating a process where we take what appears to be base metal (our sometimes devestating experiences) and turn it into pure gold (an even more amazing US) I have sometimes called this "uncreating" our past. But that's also not quite accurate. The past will always be there. We can't really uncreate it.

 But we can dissolve our own made-up reactions to our past- reactions that live forever as the decisions we made of who and how to be, and how to live and react to every situation, every type of person, and every potential occurrence.

 I will give you a for instance from my life... As a child I loved to sing and dance. I was always singing and dancing, singing and dancing. However my mom was not sound-friendly. Sounds and noises bothered her immensely. So while I was busy singing, she was always busy telling me to stop.
So somewhere along the line I decided I had a horrible voice.

 Whenever we decide any such thing, it's a very bad thing in the long haul. The word de-cide is related to sui-cide and homi-cide, and literally means to "kill off possibilities." So I never went for any vocal training. I never got a music degree. I sang plenty of concerts, but my only audience was the steering wheel of my car. In essence, I did everything else in life except what I loved the most.

 I would have gone to my grave like that. Most people do. Except that I was in a transformational course (like the ones I teach) and I SAW that I had made that decision that my voice was horrible. I saw how that decision had sunk into my subconscious, and for all purposes it became 100% true to me.  And I performed the divine alchemy of un-deciding that decision.

 You can hear what's actually true about me as a singer in my video link below. I am raising capital to do my first-ever recordings of inspirational songs. Donate if you feel so moved.

 But the point is this...We all have a lifetime of such decisions. These decisions have sunk into the backs of our brains and become part of our subconscious beliefs about US, and all the things we can or cannot do. These decisions are not true. They are all false. But they run us and drive our lives in a million ways. It is these decisions that create all the patterns that have us each say... "Oh no. Not again." These decisions drop in like little thought mind-bombs and derail us from what might otherwise have been a better course.

 Usually we need help to un-decide decisions. This is largely because we can't see them. We are literally blind to these decisions. So we need an expert to help us see. There are lots of great experts and processes out there, including standard therapy and all kinds of mind-coaching processes. (Therapy, by the way, is not just for the sick. Most of us could use a good slice of it.)

 Yet in my opinion there are few processes that match for speed and laser-like efficiency what has been called Ontology, or The Science of Being and how we create our very selves." And that's what I do.

 So today I give you myself as a resource. Join my free webinar on Thursday, August 24th, 2017, 7pm-8:30 EDT.  Mindbombs:  The Trogger-Happy False Beliefs That Have Us 'Ready to BLow'. 
If you miss this webinar, please contact me for the next one.

 So work with me or work with someone else out there. But at all cost follow your mama's advice..."You got to put the past in the past."

 As always, all of this is contributed to you from a place of humility. Yes I am a Tranformational Personal Growth & Life Coach. However, when all is said and done, the biggest trainer we each have is that Higher & Divinely Connected Self within us.
Namaste & all blesings to you, 
Lorelei Fenton
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Monday, May 22, 2017

Tip # 5b: PUT THE PAST IN THE PAST



If you are a newcomer to this blog it will be very helpful to read my Introduction to these tips, and then my post "How to Use These tips."

What does it mean to "Put the Past in the Past"?

 If you are like me 20 years ago, it means absolutely nothing to you. Twenty years ago, I didn't care about what had happened to me in the past. What did it matter to me? That was then, this was now. Why should I even worry about it?

 In point of fact, it would never have occurred to me that there was anything from my past that was hindering me. And if someone had told me to put the past in the past in order to have the life of my dreams, I would have thought they weren't even talking about me. I would have figured they were talking about some other folks out there... for instance, the folks out there that are not so very well put together.

 However from where I sit now as a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach
I can very clearly see this...

 In those days I was a walking, talking, open, gaping wound from all that had happened to me, that I did not even think was affecting me.

 How could I be an open gaping wound and not even think I was affected by my past?

 Our personal past is alive in us in ways that we cannot even see. It has formed our way of thinking, our mind-sets and beliefs, our personal fears and phobias, our insecurities, our beliefs about what we can and cannot do, accomplish, or succeed at. Our personal past drives who we trust and who we don't, based on the lingering attempt not to make the same mistake again.

 PS- Our assessment of this is often dead wrong, and causes the very issues we look to avoid. That is why we all have what seem to be never-ending patterns of the same unworkable situations, relationships, jobs, arguments, problems, troubles, and predicaments.

 As humans we have over 100 Million Billion trees of learning (or Dendrites) in our brains where we house all of the things we have ever 'learned' in our lifetimes. The lion's share of what we have learned about 'life', 'ourselves', 'how we are' and 'how the world' is has been hard-wired into those dendrites by the painful/traumatic experiences of our lives. The process is often complete by the age of 6, 7, or 8. I am speaking of what we know without even questioning or thinking about it. All of this is wrapped up in what has been called by some experts our 'Identity'.

 So I was a walking, talking open-wound because my Identity, formed through victimization and violence at age 5 or 6, was (at the time) an ongoing victim, lacking self-love, lacking confidence, and lacking any true ability to move through all of that brain fog into a successful, vibrant, and enjoyable life.

 Now, I do not want to imply that only victims of harsh experience carry their past around in that way. In point of fact every human being on the planet carries a residue of his or her personal past that gets in his or her way, to one extent or another. Even our very physical bodies carry the past around in ways that hinder us greatly. We are all usually blind to that. But the effect of the past on the physical body is a whole post in and of itself, and I will discuss it another time.

 So in the mental realm, what happens when we really put the past in the past?

 Quite simply said, life becomes the land of miracles. Each time we put a piece of our past firmly in the past, we dissolve the accompanying belief sets and thinking that has hindered us. We begin to have breakthroughs and completely unprecedented results. Life looks totally different than it ever did. Each breakthrough takes our life forward. And it is a leap forward, not a baby step.

 When we do this enough, we and our lives literally become unrecognizable. The fragile, insecure, and somewhat impotent human 'Egos' that we all are slip further and further away. We act more and more from our heart centers, the part of us that is connected to others and connected to life or source itself.

 Said another way, life goes a million times better for us.

 I'm going to give you two hugely powerful resources today to assist you with "Putting the Past in the Past. I am also quite powerful with that, so I give you my current course as well.

 To take the fast track in life, consider doing all three things, though not all at once...
1) The Landmark Forum & The Landmark Curriculum for Living

 Time Magazine called The Landmark Forum one of the top 10 adventures you can have in life,  second only to a "Trip to The Moon". The Landmark Forum will leave you in the space of "anything is possible for myself and my life." You will believe that 100% and also start creating what you really want.
2) Rikka Zimmerman Take any of her courses, in person and virtual
http://rikkazimmerman.com/
Rikka's courses, and particularly one called "Awakening Heaven on Earth" will blow your mind. Not only does Rikka's work help dissolve the past from your life, it also leaves you more connected to your spirit and divine essence than anything else I know of. Inside of that space, miracles truly happen

 3) "Head Over Heels in Love With Me"
This is my 12 week virtual course and the next set begins the week of June 26th, 2017. (If you are past this date when you read this, contact me for the next one.) For this course I have combined all of my most powerful tools into 12 amazing weeks. Here's what you get in the course.
  • Old mind-tapes that have stopped you or held you back will be erased forever
  • New & Unexpected Results in Life & Business will emerge.
  • A new Peace, Excitement, Fulfillment & Clarity About What You Truly Want will blossom.
  • You, your life & your business will be revitalized, rejuvenated, & re-energized.
Contact me for more details about this course.
The tools I have given you this week are like nothing else you will ever experience. Most of us spend a lifetime with the weight of our past taking our lives down. For eons people have gone to the grave with the same patterns, blocks, and stopping points- powerless to take life any other way. But it does not have to be that way anymore fro human beings. These tools are your access out.

 As always, all of this is contributed to you from a place of humility. Yes I am a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach. However, when all is said and done, the biggest trainer we each have is that Higher & Divinely Connected Self within us.

 Namaste, beloved friends.

 Lorelei Fenton
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Thursday, May 11, 2017

Tip # 4: BELIEVING IS SEEING



If you are a newcomer to this blog it will be very helpful to read my Introduction to these tips, and then my post "How to Use These tips."

In my very first post, The Introduction, I spoke a bit about the Law of Attraction, and Quantum Physics. As a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach who has done a ton or training
& research I can say this about what is scientifically true…

 Whatever we believe in collectively and individually comes true. Quantum Scientists say the reason for this phenomenon is because the very smallest particles of matter, something called Quarks, are actually affected by human beings, individually and collectively. Said another way, the Observer (human being) has an affect on the Observed (Quarks, the building blocks of matter). And one cannot separate the one from the other in the matter of predicting behavior.

 Studies have also shown that these Quarks exhibit a behavior which is called “Quantum Entanglement”. What this means is that no matter how far apart a Quark may be from its Entangled Partner, the actions/behavior of one correlate to the actions/behavior of the other. So there is some kind of instantaneous communication between Quarks that is not spoken and not accounted for by any form of communication we human beings know of… except what one might deem as a sort of telepathy, or some sort of information field that is present across extreme distance, and even time.

 Meanwhile these Quarks make up every single material ‘thing’ in our universe, living and non-living. That means cats, dogs, stars, planets, chairs, push pins, hat racks, volcanoes, plants, and anything & everything else we can possibly think of. So information flows mysteriously between Quarks, the smallest building blocks of matter, AND human beings are intricately connected to what those Quarks actually do.

 But we do not need to get so very scientific to have full and indisputable proof that Believing is Seeing. We can look to our own lives. For instance have you ever noticed that your friend, who believes and says that all men are fickle, never has a committed man in her life. Or have you noticed that your sister, who thinks and says that money is very difficult to get, is always broke.  Or have you noticed that you yourself live in a run, run, run world, and you also fully believe that there is never enough time.

Now at this point many people might say “But you are missing the point…All men ARE fickle, Money IS very difficult and There simply is NOT enough time.” And I might concur with this on some level if I had not seen or helped hundreds of people rid themselves of these kinds of belief sets (and also done it at least a thousand times for myself) and seen the striking results. Suddenly, when the core belief is uprooted, there are only committed men coming around, or loads of money begins to pour in, or time becomes plentiful, and lounging around at a leisurely pace becomes the norm. 

 We who work or play at altering our own and other people’s often toxic belief sets don’t need a single bit of proof that “Believing is Seeing.” It is abundantly clear to us that whatever an individual really believes, has in fact come true for him or her.

 I will give you a personal example… 

 When I first began to delve into what I might call "uncreating" beliefs I believed with 100% surety that there was something wrong with me. Of course I never told this to anyone. I tried to pretend I was confident. But the struggle in my mind was a nightmare. I never wanted to say what was on my mind, for fear I might make some mistake, or upset someone, or reveal my flaws. I examined my unspoken thoughts to the hilt, then discarded 90% of them as unable to be spoken. Even a comment on the weather could be taken incorrectly, I was sure. So I shut up a lot, and was completely stifled and uneasy. When I did speak as Lorelei, it was not with much power. Interestingly I could speak beautifully as an actress in a role, but not as ME in my life, or on a stage.

 After seeing the root cause of why I felt there was something wrong with me (a specific incident of violation at a young age) I started to speak up and speak out as me. After years of this, I now make a living at Public Speaking. Often this entails telling people things that might upset them, but which make a big difference to them. 

 So to sum up, I believed there was something wrong with me and so there was, at least in the area of speaking. I saw something I had never seen which had me stop believing there was something wrong with me, and the issue went away. I was then able to speak with power- eventually being able to say anything to anyone, no matter how touchy the subject, and say it in a way that made a difference for them.

 Believing is Seeing. If you believe something, it will show up in your life.

 There are two major ways we can approach the world of “Believing is Seeing” in order to have a life that we love.

 1) We can uproot and dismantle our disempowering beliefs. When we do this for a certain issue or area of life, new empowering beliefs always show up. This is quite an amazing and powerful process, where we experience literal “quantum leaps” in life. This is the work that I personally do for people. So this week one tool I am giving you is "Me." Reach out to me via facebook or linkedIn below, if you would like to chat about uprooting your disempowering beliefs.

 2) We can practice our God given ability to imagine and visualize. The more we 'see' what we want, 'experience' it, and especially 'feel the feeling' of having it, doing it, or being it, the more it will materialize for us. The Masterful Mr. Jack Canfield has a great article on visualization here.

 In addition, if you have not seen, read or listened to “The Secret” yet, consider that you are a bit behind the 8 ball. The Secret (movie, book, audio tape) has a wealth of information on “Believing is Seeing”,  as well as on the power of visualization. Here is the link the website.

 Of course the most powerful way to approach “Believing is Seeing” is to practice both of the above methods. Because you or I could spend all day, every day visualizing the love of our lives, seeing what he or she looks like, acts like and IS like. But if there is a core belief that we are not attractive to the opposite sex, for instance, those beautiful people that we are visualizing are just not going to show up in our lives.

 So here is an important point to make...If we are visualizing and doing affirmations but getting little result, then it is almost a given that there is some core belief that is diametrically opposed to our having what we want. Dismantling that belief is the missing link that needs to be addressed to get what we desire.

 In one of my first posts, “Separating the Wheat From the Chaff”, I spoke also about the strong probability that we human beings of the earth will soon be moving to a higher vibration, or frequency as they say. In the higher vibrations thoughts become material things nearly instantaneously. Belief has become 'knowing 'in the higher vibrations, with zero doubt or question, so what we desire materializes. I am speaking about the loaves and fishes now, for it is presupposed that Jesus was at a much higher  vibration than anyone else at the time.

 Next time discuss on tip # 4 I will talk more about this instantaneous materializing, and how we can take strong steps in that direction. If you are interested to take a Quantum Leap now, I direct you to this particular Meet-up group called Ancient Awakenings.

 This step correlates largely to the Naval Chakra, which deals with our dreams, ambitions and fantasies. According to Master Teacher Diana Cooper, the Archangel Gabriel watches over this Chakra. We can ask for his assistance with this Chakra, and he is always delighted to help.

 Visualizing is tons of fun, and uprooting beliefs sets is truly a thrill. So enjoy this step!

 As always, all of this is contributed to you from a place of humility. Yes I am a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach. However, when all is said and done, the biggest trainer we each have is that Higher & Divinely Connected Self within us.

Namaste. I send you love, light, joy, fun, play, ease and wild abundance.
Lorelei Fenton
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Friday, May 5, 2017

Tip # 3: THE HOLY ART OF PLAY


If you are a newcomer to this blog it will be very helpful to read my Introduction to these tips, and then my post "How to Use These tips."

As a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach I can say this...

 In my humble opinion, there is not much closer to the spirit of God than the Act of Creation. When God created, he/she gave birth to us all.. He/she gave birth to the entire cosmos and all beings, and life forms, and all planets, and all galaxies, and all universes, and all material things, and all Angels, and all of Everything. So when WE create, we give life to something and we are fully being the God-part of ourselves.

 Many of us here on the earth have wondered about the why of creation. For what purpose, we ask, was all of this made? Why did it all come into existence? There have been answers galore to this question, spanning through the eons of all time. But as far as I can see the only answer that seems to make any real sense, the only answer that comes from any true God-like unconditional love and freedom is this one...

 It was all created just for the fun of it. All of this was created for the sheer joy of creation itself.

 Wow. Isn't that wonderful. We can now let go of all of our have-tos, and shoulds, and guilts about what we did or did not accomplish here on this planet to date. Because we have no real agenda. We have no real duty. We just simply exist for the joy of it. And by our very existence, we have pleased God.

 YAAAYYYY....That is so great and such a relief.

 I myself have lived entire decades of my life feeling a low grade of guilt for all I did or did not do, for all my perceived failures or lacks of success. I thought, erroneously, I could only please God by doing something amazing like solving world hunger or causing world peace. I spent a lot of years trying to figure out how I could do something amazing like that. It was a daunting task to set for myself, and quite psychologically defeating. Meanwhile the struggle to do that literally forced me to abject poverty at one point in my life. (That's a long story and I will save it for another day.)

 But what a relief to finally see that just by being here we are successes, and a pleasure to God. We are 1000% valuable just by your very existence.

 Some of us would like to argue that this is not true- that we are not so very great or beloved, just by our mere existence. But I do get messages from the Angels beyond the veil, so to speak. Many of us are getting such communications these days, and I discuss this a bit in my writing "Separating the Wheat from The Chaff." So this is what THE ANGELS say about each and every one of us. We ARE beloved beyond imagining. Shall we then argue with the Angels?

 So if God created all of this and all of us for the sheer joy of it, just to play and have fun, then it stands to reason that fun and play are very holy things. It looks as if fun and play are actually just as holy as the Act of Creation. So we shall now capitalize the holy words "Fun" and "Play", just as we do the  holy word "God". :)

 So if you look, we could even argue that the only forms of lasting Creation come from being in the space of Fun and Play. Being in Fun and Play we create things that are truly valuable and lasting. We will not abandon these creations, half done. We stick with them for the sheer joy of creating them. And these joyful creations are the things that we all value the most, are they not? Consider the model airplane you took joy in creating at age 16. Then you proudly displayed it on the shelf and kept it there for years. Store bought things came and went, but that model airplane stayed on the shelf.

 When we create something that we truly love, we are naturally having Fun and Playing. So Fun, Play, and Creation go hand in hand.

 Now I want to expand what we all think Creation is...Yes it is art. Yes it is music. Yes it is architecture, and Legos, and bridges, and plays, and songs and arboretums and museums, and horse farms, and restaurants, and cuisines, and task forces, and magazines, and lobbying campaigns, and books, and business plans, and anything at all that we each enjoy "creating."

 But creation is much more...

 Creation is when you go outside with your son to throw the baseball, and suddenly you are laughing and smiling with him. That is a moment of joy you have created.

 Creation is when you are making love (arguably the highest form of creation) and your eyes meet and you both pause in wonder at the beauty you see there. That is a moment of love you have created.

 Creation is when you sit around with friends in the yard after a picnic and suddenly you point to the clouds and everyone sees the outline of a unicorn. That is a moment of wonder you have created.

 Creation is literally taking the time to live moment by moment and see what you can do, make, or cause, alone and with others... just for the sheer joy of it.

 And when you truly create from your God-self, you will be having fun, playing, loving your life, and loving others.

 So now here are my radical tools for this step, step number 3.

 1) MAKE PLAY AND FUN YOUR JOB. Do it every day and let it lead you to whatever there is to create, even in the world of money.

 2) CREATE WHATEVER WILL PUT YOU IN THE SPACE OF FUN AND PLAY.
    Whatever creation makes your heart sing in the moment, do it.

 When we do these two things every day, our lives become magical. We are exuding that positive joy energy, and life opens up. What we want begins to literally come right to us. Bank accounts often grow magically. In the work I do, for instance, this tool of bringing in "Play" literally saved one particular couple from breaking up their whole marriage. This kind of thing certainly happens, as long as we are not thwarting ourselves in some other ways that we will talk about later.

 This step is associated with the Sacral Chakra, which is just above the root chakra. It is the chakra of creativity, and sexuality. This chakra is overseen by Archangel Gabriel and his twin flame, Archangel Hope. You may ask either for assistance as follows...

 "Dearest Archangel Hope/Gabriel. Please assist me with being in creation, letting go of work and struggle and embracing the holy energies of Fun and Play. Please drop ideas into my head when I begin to work or struggle, and show me moment by moment, what miraculous things I can create with Fun, Play, and Ease. Thank you for the immense blessing that you are, and for all you bring to my life."

 Here are some ideas of what may be Fun for you.
A) Create Visual Art- all kinds
-You don't have to be Monet. Even coloring is a creation. (And one we adults have forgotten that we love to do!)

B) Create Performance Art- Music, Dance, Theater
- It doesn't have to be big,
(Remember that there is a kid inside yourself... one who used to put together a play for the grown-ups with your cousins in half an hour.)

 C) Build 'things'
-model airplanes, jewelry, knitting, foot-bridges, cabinets, doll houses, anything and everything you like and find joy in.

 D) Create a group (such as a meet-up)
-for anything you like, enjoy, or find fulfillment in.

 E) Write
-poetry, a book, a movie, as short story, a song

 F) Beautify your home or garden
-add plants and flowers, stencil, create a meditation room, make a fish pond

 G) Play a game with the kids, and create some moments of Fun

 H) Snuggle on the couch with your honey and create some moments of love
-afterwards, if the mood strikes, you can even create the act of creating new life. That is certainly fun and playful. :)

 There are too many ways to Create, have Fun and Play for me to name them all here, Do what YOU love, whatever that may be.

 Note: Remember to keep the content of your creation or art in the space of fun, play, and ease. If you create from doom, gloom, and misery you will miss the whole point of finding your Play, and Fun. 

 Sometimes art (visual, performance, written) can be used to purge our pain. This the creation of a form of healing. Healing is a holy thing. But such pain-based forms of art must be used sparingly, lest they mindlessly create what we don't really want. By this I mean the creation of more suffering and pain. In such cases we as the viewer become much like rubber-kneckers, morbidly fascinated by the scene of an accident, and likely to cause one ourselves. This is a pretty good analogy, because whatever we focus on, collectively and individually, tends to increase.

 A wonderful resource for you to learn how to play, and live in the wonder of life is Ms. Rita Abrego, a facilitator for something called "Access Consciousness." I learned all I know about this issue from her. She is truly a Divine Master at Fun, Play, and Ease. She has a wonderful facebook page of resources. It is a closed group, but you may be able to join upon request.

Here is her email address.

 Rita Abrego      liquifyingreality@gmail.com

 I am now also playing with my favorite thing and one of my highest joys... singing & making songs. With this I plan to bring transformational thinking, freedom, and brother/sisterhood to the world. Watch my video. Support/endorse/share as you can. :))

 As always, all of this is contributed to you from a place of humility. Yes I am a Transformational Personal Growth & Life Coach. However, when all is said and done, the biggest trainer we each have is that Higher & Divinely Connected Self within us.

 THIS WEEK MY LAST WORDS TO YOU ARE ENJOY, ENJOY, ENJOY!!!
Lorelei Fenton

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